I Am Married But Lonely

4 years now without any intimacy. We're basically roommates. I just want to feel loved again. I miss the casual intimacy most. A smile, a hug, the kiss goodbye when I go to work. I've looked outside the marriage and made some amazing friends, but nothing yet to fill the ragged tear in my soul.

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polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

Keep trying.. outside your marriage.. to make meaningful contact..
I realize that you HAVE been trying for a long time, but it WILL come to you...
Good Luck.. I've been where you are and it is not fun...

authorArt · 56-60, M

Thanks, I will. I appreciate the boost.

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@authorArt: I believe in POLYANDRY and POLYAMORY.. as a solution to the problems with MONOGAMY..

authorArt · 56-60, M

I agree. Interactions with other women and men as well has helped. I just haven't found the right situation to fill the hole in my heart.