I Am Married, Lonely And Crave Intimacy

Sometimes at night it's the worst. Just lying next to her with my hand on her side, or her hip. I run my fingers over her body, sometimes up under her shirt and tracing the top of her pajama pant. So many nights this is the case, and so many nights get no reaction. I get myself worked up with no results.
Maybe I should keep my hands to myself.

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Pebbles

That makes me sad to read because I was on the other side of that, and would have relished the attention and affection.

After 7 years, I couldn't do it anymore. I left.

Oside77 · 46-50, M

Going on five years (or so?) like this. 17 years married.
She's always had a lower libido though.

Pebbles

@Oside77: We were together 25 years married 23.
I've always had a high libido.
Sucks to be with someone incompatible.

Oside77 · 46-50, M

It does. And it's frustrating sometimes. Especially nights like those.

HelloItsme · F

@Oside77: But she is selfish Thinking of herself .

Oside77 · 46-50, M

@HelloItsme: sometimes it seems that way. And if I complain then I'm the insensitive one.

silkandlace · 46-50, M

@Oside77 indeed