I Am Married, Lonely And Crave Intimacy

Sometimes at night it's the worst. Just lying next to her with my hand on her side, or her hip. I run my fingers over her body, sometimes up under her shirt and tracing the top of her pajama pant. So many nights this is the case, and so many nights get no reaction. I get myself worked up with no results.
Maybe I should keep my hands to myself.

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Loveableangel · 51-55, F

Get out of that relationship

Oside77 · 46-50, M

I think I’m in it for the long haul. 20 years and counting. @Loveableangel

Loveableangel · 51-55, F

@Oside77 I was in a marriage just like that and It never improved... eventually he left first ...for a period of time then returned after 6 months to say he wasn’t in love with me anymore... I should have left eight years earlier...all this after 18 years of marriage. Just don’t be unhappy for someone else.

Pebbles

@Oside77So, you're willing to live like that for another 30+ years? No intimacy, no passion?
That was my catalyst..do I want to be doing this, this way for another 20,30,40 years? Hell no.
Now I have a relationship with passion, intimacy, support, understanding etc. Not one regret over my divorce.