I Am Married But Lonely

Sorry to hear that. I feel ya there, as I went through that myself. Have you considered telling him how he makes you feel?

It's so hard when the one that is supposed to be guarding your weakness, instead exploits it. The thought of you crying quietly while he turns his back tears at my heart.

He is cruel and heartless, would you ever treat him in such a manor? You wear your disguise well couple weekend together set the story of a beautiful marriage....As horrible as it sounds sometimes people will give what you will accept... Hoping thing work out

that is sad and mean ! hate to see people cry . to much pain in the world . smiles should be the way ! :-)

I know the exact same feeling. I try to put on a brave face, but behind the face is pain, anger, frustration.

Sorry

@dewkissedrose: are you sure he does it knowingly and on purpose?
My wife often tells me the same thing - that I know what drives her crazy and I keep doing it.
But my problem is that I'm acting naturally, I have no intent to hurt her, at that moment I simply don't have time to reflect back and analyze my own actions and words.
I understand it doesn't help you, but does it make sense?

Some people get to thinking marriage is a license to be cruel. Sorry to hear your story... hope you find strength.

Sorry

I know my husband is a big ball buster n teaser..He says some ShIiiT things..I just ignore for he is ignorant. Yet it irritates when he pulls this ahole crap and then says I love you...( That's just amo

Feeling the exact same right now.

That's not love, that emotional warfare

how long have you been married?

Poor baby I'm sorry I feel your pain