I Am Married But Lonely

To all the married ladies, how do you cope with loneliness? ...to all the ones who’s having an affair , how do you deal with it and the guilt?
To those who are married and have a sugar daddy .., how ???
Reason am asking is ..... I miss the passion , romance ... lust ... attention... being in a company with someone who is present... never expected that marriage actually means drowning in loneliness..

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PixieParty · 41-45, F

I cope by taking care of myself and following my passions and interests. I am not having an affair. I'm not being abused or anything. We don't fight. I miss a lot of things. So I started giving myself some of those things. Sounds silly to call myself a hot mama in the mirror but it makes me smile. I go on trips alone or with my kids and grandkids. I make sure I feel healthy and look my best for my own satisfaction. I also enjoy photography, nature walks, sitting in the porch swing watching the creek, journaling, and learning new things. Still alone but the busy days help me feel less lonely. It does creep up now and then. Like today.

Its become a marriage of convenience now as we hardly spend time together that way.

I guess part of my situation is that I also do not have a friend or friends group to spend time with otherwise. Might as well learn to love myself since I'm the only one here... Lol.