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exexec · 70-79, C
All of my wife's cheating was when we were dating. She says she enjoyed the sex and always felt guilty the next day.

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@exexec were you aware of it at the time?
exexec · 70-79, C
@SW-User She was free to date others, but not have sex with them. I suspected she was having sex, but I did not know for sure. After we married, she told me all about it.

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@exexec were you two intimate during that time as well?
exexec · 70-79, C
@SW-User We were as intimate as we could get without having actual intercourse.

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@exexec what was your reaction when she told you?
exexec · 70-79, C
@SW-User I was not surprised. Now she was mine, so I wasn't upset. I knew that she loved me and not those guys, so it was sex as a physical act with little, if any, romantic feelings. I enjoyed hearing her stories.

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@exexec My first wife cheated and I knew it even though she didn't know or didn't care that I knew. It wasn't a surprise to find out, I almost expected it.