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Cheating Male and Female

Why do men judge other men who cheat much more harshly than females do to females who cheat females support female cheaters while men condem male cheaters why is this.
SW-User
Women don't condemn other women for cheating either. They would say that there's always a "reason" that a woman cheats (whether it be abuse, partner not fulfilling her needs, etc.)

It's incredibly hypocritical, and there are double standards for women.
Spotpot · 41-45, M
@SW-User This is true.
SW-User
@SW-User That's true. Also, those women probably think it's never their fault if their relationship breaks down
SW-User
@SW-User That frequently seems to be the case.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
I'm not sure that's true.
Northwest · M
In what culture? In the US, I don't see the finger-pointing as one sided.
Spotpot · 41-45, M
@Northwest American culture excuse female cheating but not mens.
Northwest · M
@Spotpot I would be genuinely interested in any data you have to back this up. I personally have never seen a bias in my community.
@Spotpot

Really?
How often do you hear about a man being called a whore or slut for cheating?
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Gotta say.. I’ve known more guys who cover for their buddy’s cheating than women with this whole “boys will be boys” attitude about it. With women I’ve noticed they may not seemingly judge as harshly to preserve the friendship, but those conversations aren’t typically ‘cool with cheating’, so much as hoping their friend either solves the problems in the relationship/within themselves or does the right thing by ending it.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
It’s a counter reaction to centuries of women being condemned for being even suspected of cheating.

Before blood and dna testing an unfaithful wife put the paternity of children into question. In many cultures and for centuries even to this day women were put to death for suspected infidelity.

With the advent of dna and blood tests this concern is vastly diminished if not eliminated entirely.
Scribbles · 36-40, F
I think it's generally the other way around and women are judged more harshly.
Piper · 61-69, F
I've not noticed that being true at all, either among men and women that I've know or in general.
Do men condemn men who cheat? It seems like they cheer them on for getting more pussy.
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