MrGomco · 41-45, M
I agree and I've never been married and I won't, I'm already too old for that.
valobasa4ever · F
@MrGomco 🥂
MrGomco · 41-45, M
@valobasa4ever cheers 🥂
Mamapolo2016 · F
I disagree, at least about marrying young. If you carry wild oat seeds in your pocket, you’re not ready to marry. If you think marriage is an economic safety net, think again. You are not ready to have children. If not getting your own way causes you to feel like a two year old who absolutely deserves to own a motorcycle, you are not even ready to be an adult.
Wise people definitely marry, but the process moves much slower, without the difficulty of hormones they have not learned to manage.
I like Christie too, but that doesn’t mean her declarations or those of her characters are carved in stone.
Yes, people used to marry young, but that was a different world. Life spans were shorter, and a decent job could support a family. People did not ‘need’ what they need today. Cell phones, cars, air conditioning, private schools, golf club memberships, exotic vacations, wildly expensive weddings, salon hair and nails. Young people are younger today. They’re still playing.
Wise people definitely marry, but the process moves much slower, without the difficulty of hormones they have not learned to manage.
I like Christie too, but that doesn’t mean her declarations or those of her characters are carved in stone.
Yes, people used to marry young, but that was a different world. Life spans were shorter, and a decent job could support a family. People did not ‘need’ what they need today. Cell phones, cars, air conditioning, private schools, golf club memberships, exotic vacations, wildly expensive weddings, salon hair and nails. Young people are younger today. They’re still playing.
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TexChik · F
Marriage is not for everyone, some have been hurt and are afraid of that pain, others refuse to do what is necessary to get along. Others have no intention of honoring their vows.
Then there are those who (like me) believe it was the single best decision of my life. I chose well and work hard to make sure he chose well too. It takes two to make it work, and when it works, it is amazing.
Then there are those who (like me) believe it was the single best decision of my life. I chose well and work hard to make sure he chose well too. It takes two to make it work, and when it works, it is amazing.
I'm now getting ready to be married as an older, wiser person. Idk about all that. But I still love me some Agatha 🤷🏾
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NightsWatch · M
@Degbeme good good I've got the blender covered
@valobasa4ever Thank you kindly 😊
valobasa4ever · F
Pfuzylogic · M
Marry when you are young and procreate. Old people don’t have babies.
@Pfuzylogic Marriage is not just for having babies.
valobasa4ever · F
@Pfuzylogic
Science has evolved.
We can have children through surrogacy & adoption remains an option.
Science has evolved.
We can have children through surrogacy & adoption remains an option.
Pfuzylogic · M
@MsSwan @valobasa4ever
I agree is isn’t the only reason but it was the first reason so children would not be considered bastards!
I agree is isn’t the only reason but it was the first reason so children would not be considered bastards!
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Mellomarsha · 61-69, F
As a wise person, you've wisely narrowed down your prospects. Then comes the risk of a latecomer's claims on your estate, to the disadvantage of those already willed it. I think both would contribute to a drop in late marriages among the cohort composed of the wise.
Rambler · 61-69, M
Lol yeah
greensnacks · F
Never marry.
valobasa4ever · F
@greensnacks 🥂
meJess · F
Her husband cheated on her which might colour her views.
valobasa4ever · F
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
She might be right to an extent.
Sapio · 51-55, M
I've never been married and I'm not sure if it's in the cards for me at my age.
valobasa4ever · F
@Sapio 🥂
SilverF0x · 51-55, M
Not everyone gets wiser with age
Marry when it feels right
Marry when it feels right
valobasa4ever · F
@SilverF0x 🙏
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Not every old person becomes wise though. 😆
Magenta · F
@CrazyMusicLover😄 Not even close, It's such a myth.
valobasa4ever · F
@CrazyMusicLover Human history agrees with you. ✨
valobasa4ever · F
@Rambler That's sad .
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Lwaxan Troi, Daughter of the fifth house. Holder of the Sacred Chalice of Rixx. Heir to the Holy Rings of Betazed. Begs to differ:

valobasa4ever · F
@Thevy29 Thank you . :-)
supersnipe · 61-69, M
As you get older as a single person, the singleness becomes more a part of you. You stop being a future partner and become a future single person.
valobasa4ever · F
@supersnipe 🤎
No, I don't
valobasa4ever · F
@MsSwan 🙏
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
No.
No two people are alike.
Therefore you can't assign one aspect to even any group of people.
Everyone is constantly changing as well.
My half brother had his first child, from a second marriage, at 56. His first marriage there was none. She passed away. 😞
Not that I believe that is a frequent thing though.
BTW AI is questioning the authenticity of that quote. Yes, it's widely spread on social media unfortunately.
No two people are alike.
Therefore you can't assign one aspect to even any group of people.
Everyone is constantly changing as well.
My half brother had his first child, from a second marriage, at 56. His first marriage there was none. She passed away. 😞
Not that I believe that is a frequent thing though.
BTW AI is questioning the authenticity of that quote. Yes, it's widely spread on social media unfortunately.
valobasa4ever · F
@DeWayfarer Famous Sitarist Anoushka Shankar was born on June 9, 1981, her dad was 61 at the time of her birth in London.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Dear @valobasa4ever why are you telling me about this now. Could have used this information some 50+ years ago.
valobasa4ever · F
@Degbeme
I wish I could have met you during the time you mentioned.
I apologize.
Even my mom had not yet entered my grandparents' lives at that time.
I wish I could have met you during the time you mentioned.
I apologize.
Even my mom had not yet entered my grandparents' lives at that time.



























