what's up with all these marry women don't they have spouses.

And lovers

Maybe they don’t have a woman spouse and want one instead or as well as a male spouse.

What do you think their spouses are doing lol?

Honestly, I wonder the same sometimes. It’s weird how many married people still look for attention or emotional validation elsewhere when they already have a partner.

Even if someone’s partner is flawed or the relationship is unhappy, getting emotionally involved with other people usually just creates more damage. At some point you either fix your relationship or leave it, dragging other people into it rarely ends well.

Many reasons, some are,

Their tired of being hurt emotionally

Want independence, like being single

They have high priorities that come first to them. like career, education, family care, or hobbies take precedence.

Some have high standards and they are being selective about partners or waiting for the right match.

Many overlook Hlhealth or personal issues. Mental and physical health can make dating or marriage very difficult and choose to stay single for that reason

Behave like unmarried ones😏