How do you define a sexless marriage?

Is it no sex at all? Or how much sex is normal and how much is too little?

My wife seems to have a very low sex drive while Mine’s quite high. We have sex once every month and half maybe if im lucky. Am I in a sexless marriage?

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lissah · 36-40, F

I think normal is probably 3 times a week

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@lissah there is no normal. I've had sex less than a handful of times a year averaged over the 31 yrs I've been sexually aware. I'm 57 now. Single since 2018. No sex since late 2016. Relationships totalled almost 20 of those years. So even when in a relationship sex was rare. I've pretty much forgotten what sex in a loving relationship is like but much of what I did have wasn't exactly always memorably pleasant overall.

memakingfriends · 41-45, M

@zonavar68 sadly i feel in heading in that direction

lissah · 36-40, F

@zonavar68 average/ normal same thing