A Question for the modern Married and Engaged Ladies
Poll - Total Votes: 17
Yes, I had sex with other guys
No, I was faithful
You can only vote on one answer.
I wanted to bring up something I’ve observed and get some honest feedback from others, especially those who are married or currently engaged.
Over the years, during nights out at bars and clubs, I’ve occasionally witnessed behavior at bachelorette parties that genuinely surprised me. On more than a dozen occasions, I’ve seen brides-to-be engaging in explicit acts with random men—things like giving oral sex, hand stimulation right there in the club, or even leaving with someone after the night out.
These weren’t just isolated or subtle moments—they were out in the open and, frankly, quite shocking to witness, especially considering the context of celebrating an upcoming wedding.
Speaking for myself, I didn’t engage in anything like that before my wedding. I was raised in a strict household and always taught to carry myself a certain way. While I’m definitely not that “good girl” anymore, this trend has made me genuinely curious:
Is this kind of behavior more common than people admit during bachelorette parties nowadays?
For those of you who are married or engaged—what was your experience? Did things ever go further than expected during your bachelorette celebration, or have you seen others cross the line in similar situations?
This isn’t meant to judge anyone—I'm just trying to understand how norms and expectations around these events may have shifted.
Over the years, during nights out at bars and clubs, I’ve occasionally witnessed behavior at bachelorette parties that genuinely surprised me. On more than a dozen occasions, I’ve seen brides-to-be engaging in explicit acts with random men—things like giving oral sex, hand stimulation right there in the club, or even leaving with someone after the night out.
These weren’t just isolated or subtle moments—they were out in the open and, frankly, quite shocking to witness, especially considering the context of celebrating an upcoming wedding.
Speaking for myself, I didn’t engage in anything like that before my wedding. I was raised in a strict household and always taught to carry myself a certain way. While I’m definitely not that “good girl” anymore, this trend has made me genuinely curious:
Is this kind of behavior more common than people admit during bachelorette parties nowadays?
For those of you who are married or engaged—what was your experience? Did things ever go further than expected during your bachelorette celebration, or have you seen others cross the line in similar situations?
This isn’t meant to judge anyone—I'm just trying to understand how norms and expectations around these events may have shifted.
