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All of today I've been feeling extremely excited!!

🙂 So much so I have to write before I go to bed.
After being separated & divorced 4 years , I quite literally woke up this morning and decided after all that I would like to marry again

All my uncertanties have gone away.

I'm looking forward to a lovely new beginning with that special .. Special!!! Man 😊❤️😊✨

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Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

Since starting this thread I have had no real time at all to put into the beginnings of how to even think about meeting a new husband 😀

Ive been so busy. Sticky things to sort out. Anyhoo during the busy periods , my thoughts fleetingly drifted toward the matter.

Online dating again was actually the furthest from my mind . Not because I had bas experiences. I just wanted the initial meeting to feel more organic.

My friend has done speed dating for years. Ive never so thought it might be nice to join her in later on this month.

Having said this yesterday' or was two days ago 🤔 ☺️😉

I had a notion to join a particular 'niche' online dating site. I'm a fully fledged premium member for just a month , not too long. So will see how it goes.

At the moment highly irritating. Ive had lots of interest , albeit not anyone ive felt conections with.

I mean i'm with out doubt a positive forward thinking person. But ots times like this that starkly remind just how really special the previous men were / are who had met before ... you just cant WILL a loving connection to be there .

Still ... just makes you realise all the more that there IS such a reality as ' fate' and destiny. Because its been played out so wonderfully within my previous relationships.

The question is ..and its the same for most people who are looking for love again .. which is supposing it never happens for me again ?

Well Im bogged down with commitments for the next week or so. So not sure if I'll be able to really focus on dating.

But still I have premium membership until early September. Something lovely may happen between now ..and then Ooo Oooh!!! ..who knows ☺️😉

VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M

@Kae20 I hope the online dating thing is going well for you. For me it's just a waste of time, people like my profile and then ignore my messages. It's just silly and ignorant imo. I don't like the world and what it has become, just so superficial with no substance and that's hindering any chances of me finding someone.

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

🙂 Right so ..hmmm since making this post .I've been snowed under with little time to think about the personality traits this husband to be of mine should have.

Here are some which are very desirable..am I missing important from this list ... something I maybe have even thought about?

..in no particular order
: Calm natured
: Good manners
Loyal
:Respectfull
: So his age doesn't matter ..just as long as
: Easy on the eyes
he's seriously seeking a life partner.
: Kind hearted
: Family oriented
: Creative in someway
: Inquisitive about life & learning
Romantic
Tactile
Warm hearted
Honest
Spiritual
Slightly Asperger's
: His job & salary doesn't matter as long as he has an income .
Clean
Enjoys travel
Eclectic taste in music
Ideally a cinefile ( bonus)
: He can't have any vices ..which control him.
::He's got to be spontaneous & positive thinking
: Believe in love
Believe in marriage
Enjoy food & sharing cooking
Enjoy life
Hold traditional values
It's a long list of qualities ..but I don't think it's unreasonable ❤️

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Heartlander · 80-89, M

@Kae20 :) a renaissance man?

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Heartlander 🙂 most certainly 😉

Sterler45 · 36-40, M

This is a new beginning and you deserve one. May I wish you all the best xx

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Sterler45 🙂Aww you lovely friend. Thank you much ..much for your good wishes 🍓 xxx

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

So.. Yesterday I forgot to add to my wonderful list " Communication"

I just sort of took it for granted , that within that mix . He would be a good communicator. But this is not always guaranteed.

I don't mean about insignificant things . I mean important topics & enjoying each others company .

I think I took it for granted because both of my last 2 husbands were. However I've since realised that some are not, & that's fine , but that type is not for me 😯

froggtongue · M

Well, good for you. These things take a while and you've run the natural course it seems. So go out and enjoy yourself. Maybe you'll find somebody by chance, if there's not already someone in the picture for you.

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Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@froggtongue 😉 I'm dumbstruck... absolutely 💯 to realise

Aside from just 1 requirement ...
He has each all of these qualities & personality triats . Some more than I could have hoped for .

And who says they dont believe in faith & destiny Im astounded , even more so because I simply fell in love ❤️

and forgot I had a list 🙃

Incredible 💕💫✨️💫💕

Here's the list .. meet my husband 😌

..in no particular order
: Calm natured
: Good manners
Loyal
:Respectfull
: So his age doesn't matter ..just as long as
: Easy on the eyes
he's seriously seeking a life partner.
: Kind hearted
: Family oriented
: Creative in someway
: Inquisitive about life & learning
Romantic
Tactile
Warm hearted
Honest
Spiritual
Slightly Asperger's
: His job & salary doesn't matter as long as he has an income .
Clean
Enjoys travel
Eclectic taste in music
Ideally a cinefile ( bonus)
: He can't have any vices ..which control him.
::He's got to be spontaneous & positive thinking
: Believe in love
Believe in marriage
Enjoy food & sharing cooking
Enjoy life
Hold traditional values
It's a long list of qualities

froggtongue · M

@Kae20 Oh. Ah. I would have thought to disqualify myself from candidacy if I didn't make any of your minimal requirements, which it sounds like even your wonderful husband didn't make. I guess the lesson here is to not care when someone makes a list and just present yourself as you are and see if you're taken for the human being that you are instead of trying to fit inside the package label. Good things comes for being oneself, hm?

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@froggtongue Absolutely right ✅️
" being oneself " will be enough & more .. for the person thats right for you.

Its as Ive always said , every pan has a lid, which fits perfect enough.

Ive learnt has well that a touch of optimism, helps enormously in bridging the gap between , disbelieving, that personal happiness can actually happen .

More than this never forget the power of Prayer. I'm not a staunchly religious person - as in I dont kneel in prayer 5 times a day .

However I will remain forever perplexed that many of us are prepared to take for granted the wonderful things god has provides us with every single day of lives .

Yet when it comes to seeking a life partner most will look everywhere for advise , magazine's, tv 📺, the internet . Before they will God✨️

Of course these other modes do work. But should only be an after thought. Not the first🤔

eyeno · M

Great outlook and attitude, good fortune to you !

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@eyeno 😊 you are kind , thank you 🍎

Heartlander · 80-89, M

Ahhh ... don't we all love that break-out moment when we've been stuck in a muddy rut too long and discover enough traction to get moving again.

Out of the rut and into the groove! We all know which is which :)

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Heartlander Things were stuck for a while , on reflection the last 5 years were actually about me healing from the past and not rushing into anything long term too soon

Not before fine tuning what it was that I actually wanted & equally as important needed.

When quite suddenly it was as if I had been traveling on a long train journey.. where there are many uncountable stops until you arrive .

When after enough time as past you realise its time to hop off and enjoy the destination.

And I can't wait!

I know what a good marriage and relationship is & now I'm looking forward to experiencing the same again.

😊 Thank you so much for your kind words 🍓

looking4thesun · M

I am sure he is just as excited to meet you

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@looking4thesun

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

😊I guess you are right about that . It's a year on , and we are happily married 🍓

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Kae20 thank you 😉

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

✨✨✨💫🎊❤️ YAY I think I've met my Husband 🎊❤️💫✨✨✨

☺️ Watch this space!!

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Congratulations!!

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Quimliqer 😊 thank you 🍒

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

😊 And so ... I have indeed met a wonderful man , who's company I have been enjoying every day since I was last on this thread

It just goes to show what the power of prayer🙏 & blind faith can bring into your life.

I am happy & pleased that I arrived at the decision to marry again 🍓

Wrestlingfanforever71 · 51-55, M

That is great 🙂🙂

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Wrestlingfanforever71 🙂thanks 🍓

Wrestlingfanforever71 · 51-55, M

You are very welcome

Bang5luts · M

I hope you find him off sw so that dream can be a reality. And I think that is amazing!! It's a difficult task healing ones heart, let alone being ready to love again.. 🤗

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Bang5luts Thank you sweetheart 😊

Hmmm now finding him on SW 🤔 what are the chances? 😄
Still my heart is an open & I'm not ruling out any good men lol
Thank you🍇

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