All of today I've been feeling extremely excited!!

🙂 So much so I have to write before I go to bed.
After being separated & divorced 4 years , I quite literally woke up this morning and decided after all that I would like to marry again

All my uncertanties have gone away.

I'm looking forward to a lovely new beginning with that special .. Special!!! Man 😊❤️😊✨

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Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

🙂 Right so ..hmmm since making this post .I've been snowed under with little time to think about the personality traits this husband to be of mine should have.

Here are some which are very desirable..am I missing important from this list ... something I maybe have even thought about?

..in no particular order
: Calm natured
: Good manners
Loyal
:Respectfull
: So his age doesn't matter ..just as long as
: Easy on the eyes
he's seriously seeking a life partner.
: Kind hearted
: Family oriented
: Creative in someway
: Inquisitive about life & learning
Romantic
Tactile
Warm hearted
Honest
Spiritual
Slightly Asperger's
: His job & salary doesn't matter as long as he has an income .
Clean
Enjoys travel
Eclectic taste in music
Ideally a cinefile ( bonus)
: He can't have any vices ..which control him.
::He's got to be spontaneous & positive thinking
: Believe in love
Believe in marriage
Enjoy food & sharing cooking
Enjoy life
Hold traditional values
It's a long list of qualities ..but I don't think it's unreasonable ❤️

Heartlander · 80-89, M

@Kae20

Looks good!

Should "baggage" be added to the list? I realize suitcases come in different sizes and weights. Some even have rollers. But ... friends and relatives who have gone through the similar remarriage idea seem to progress nicely until they smack into the baggage thing. And it's usually about the potential spouse's family and children.

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Heartlander thanks for your response..you have a valid point. I'm going have a cuppa and give this point some thought. 🙂 Especially the types of suitcases 😂

As well as this extremely important point. I signed off last night realising I missed out an absolute essential!!

will add to the mix ..a bit later x

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Heartlander ive come to realise most ppl do indeed have baggage.

I'm willing to embrace most things -
Ex wives ..if they are nice woman and there are previous children then I'm more than happy to blend our families.

If they have a heath condition that's okay too. I'm willing to support them, as best I can.

Mmmmm

Heartlander · 80-89, M

@Kae20 @Kae20 On the positive side, I would think that the way he handles whatever responsibility that may still be attached to old relationships would give great insight into his character.

Old baggage can be priceless or just junk. Regardless, it still carries your belongings :)

OldBrit · 61-69, M

@Kae20 Good luck

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@OldBrit thank you...alth I'm hoping it will just - so - very nicely happen anyway 😉😊

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Heartlander · 80-89, M

@Kae20 :) a renaissance man?

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Heartlander 🙂 most certainly 😉