Something wrong with my marriage?

I get every marriage has their problems. Just wondering what you guys think about this particular issue I am having. Kind of hard to explain so I will do my best.

I feel like we are more withdrawn from each other. She can be in her room and I am in the living room watching baseball or messing around on my phone by myself. We don’t really go out on dates anymore. There is no more spark. There is no sex anymore. It’s like we are just here living in the same house. I notice these problems and I think it’s not normal but why doesn’t it bother me more? But lately find myself missing the attention she use to give me or I use to give her.

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Mindful · 56-60, F

Very normal. It’s up to you two to decide whether it’s okay or not. If one of you begins to express unhappiness over it, then both need to come up with a list of things to do. I believe it means you trust each other to busy be yourselves. There may be a book with suggestion on what to do. Personally I prefer a guy who likes doing some things I like doing so that when we want to go do something we can do if together and no one feels dragged into doing g something all the time. But you should ask her always, hey do want to go out somewhere or go do something?