For the guys i know its not traditional but would you ever concider taking a girls last name after marriage
Just wondering peoples takes on it
Pfuzylogic · M
If you have children, it is traditional and considerate for the children to take the males name.
In Israel it affected inheritance of the land.
In Israel it affected inheritance of the land.
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Pfuzylogic · M
@CoffeeFirst
I was sharing with you because you seemed to be honestly confused. I can see now you aren’t.
It is fun to chat with a former friend.
I was sharing with you because you seemed to be honestly confused. I can see now you aren’t.
It is fun to chat with a former friend.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@Pfuzylogic I understand the reasoning behind the tradition. Not a problem. There are other ways to trace families today. DH does his family genealogy and the names were screwed up 100 years ago, too. I didn't mean to sound curt.
I understand it can be confusing on the surface to figure out who belongs to who. I've had the same issue in my own family. But why should I be denied my identity? There are many reasons I kept my name, and the kids have both our names.
Fun to chat with you, too!
I understand it can be confusing on the surface to figure out who belongs to who. I've had the same issue in my own family. But why should I be denied my identity? There are many reasons I kept my name, and the kids have both our names.
Fun to chat with you, too!
Pfuzylogic · M
@CoffeeFirst
I see you see you summarized everything so that you don’t need my input. Take care.
I see you see you summarized everything so that you don’t need my input. Take care.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
No, not because of tradition, but because I want my families name to live on with my children if or when I have any.
midnightsun · 26-30, M
No I won't change.
SW-User
No, not ever.
BlueRain · 51-55, F
No. It’s just weird.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
There was a man who’s father-in-law owned a Cadillac dealership here and he took his wife’s last name....that was weird then and just as weird today.
Wraithorn · 56-60, M
No I wouldn't. I would compromise though if necessary. We could combine our last names into a new name.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
Sure, why not? It's just a name. For the record, I did not take my husband's name.
Imsleepy · 31-35
I would not do it. I didn’t even care if my ex wife changed her last name to mine.
Synyster · 51-55, M
No, I'm the only boy in our family and I'm carrying on the family name.
accidentalsaint · M
and they say i need shock therapy
LokiBecky · 18-21, F
That makes them their wives property if they do.
Lol no guy would do that unless he’s kinky
Lol no guy would do that unless he’s kinky
LokiBecky · 18-21, F
@PrettyMonkey right so an emotionaly damaged man forcing himself into a family.
Ok, no regular man would do that
Ok, no regular man would do that
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
🤔
Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
I wouldn’t want anybody to take my maiden name. It’s awful.
DDonde · 31-35, M
I have no problem with it personally, although I don't know what my family's reaction would be.
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FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
No, I'd rather each of us just keep our own name.
tenente · 36-40, M
Makes zero difference to me 🤷🏼♂️