Whats your advice regarding marriage

It's a partnership requiring effort and compromise by both to keep it going. But don't look at it as work, and don't let it get boring like work. A little unexpected surprise gift, outing, or event -- the more out of character the better -- every so often helps immensely. And think of the partnership as that of roommates. Roommates are tolerant and thoughtful, knowing it can dissolve at any time. Don't let the marriage partnership begin feeling like ownership of the other person, or being owned.