Officially over 3 years relationship

There is such a thing as a couples that love each other but can't live with each other. Some may call it a toxic relationship, explosive relationship or even a dysfunctional relationship. Often times this type of relationship, (even if real love is involved,) are co-dependent relationships. You feel like you can't live with them, but you also feel that you can't live without them. These types of relationships are not at all healthy for either one of you.

Now that you have finally broken up again, make it stick. One of the hardest things to do is to not let it happen again. After time has passed, you may meet up again and think you have both changed and want to try again. Don't do it. You will eventually fall back to where you were.

Use this as a learning experience. Become smarter and wiser because of it. Most importantly, move on, continue forward, and don't look back. I know this is all easier said than done, but do it for your own mental well being. Keep the good memories, (if there are any,) but move on and don't dwell on it. Don't waste time thinking about the could haves, should haves and would haves.

Hope this was helpful. Good Luck.

Now at least you can stop living a lie, heal, and move on. We do that to ourselves just hoping to be happy when actually its just not right. I am sorry this happened, especially during the holidays. Try to keep busy and work past this .

I feel your words so much tbh

Yes it will and you will become stronger because of it. Life lessons are everywhere and we have to roll with the punches. Sorry things ended that way. Just give your heart time to heal

Your beautiful moments will never fade. You will see them in your head.
Try and forget the bad.
Focus on healing and moving on in your life, not always easy, I know.

brake up always hurt no matter whose idea it was took me 5 years to get over some one but you will in time best thing is stay busy

Breakups suck big time. But based off my love experiences, time truly does heal

Good luck, better things are ahead.

I'm sorry I know it hurts :(