Officially over 3 years relationship

After 3 years of hot and cold, give and take, breakup’s and make ups, we decided to finish thing for good.
We now realised that we are no good for each other.
I wonder how am I going to live with the fact that he is gone forever cuz the last time when he came back I thought he was the love of my life and I finally had him back.
What a beautiful illusion. I wish I could freeze beautiful moments so they would never fade.
This is going to hurt for a long time.

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IM5688 · 61-69, M Best Comment

There is such a thing as a couples that love each other but can't live with each other. Some may call it a toxic relationship, explosive relationship or even a dysfunctional relationship. Often times this type of relationship, (even if real love is involved,) are co-dependent relationships. You feel like you can't live with them, but you also feel that you can't live without them. These types of relationships are not at all healthy for either one of you.

Now that you have finally broken up again, make it stick. One of the hardest things to do is to not let it happen again. After time has passed, you may meet up again and think you have both changed and want to try again. Don't do it. You will eventually fall back to where you were.

Use this as a learning experience. Become smarter and wiser because of it. Most importantly, move on, continue forward, and don't look back. I know this is all easier said than done, but do it for your own mental well being. Keep the good memories, (if there are any,) but move on and don't dwell on it. Don't waste time thinking about the could haves, should haves and would haves.

Hope this was helpful. Good Luck.