So i may be getting into a relationship where id be living a submissive lifestyle. Any opions on how these work and what my rights are?

They work any way the people involved agree on. As a submissive you would be giving up a lot of your rights by choice. And no matter what anyone tells you, you always have the choice to reclaim those rights, and to leave the relationship if you need to. Dominance is not abuse.

The sub holds the power the Dom has to make her happy so she will want to submit to him

You hold the power. You just let the Dom borrow it sometimes.

You have to really want that, don’t ever, ever, ever accept ANY abuse that is NOT what being a Dom is, as others have said, you’re the one in control nothing happens that you don’t consent to. 🤗

Whatever he wants you to do just do it ,but make sure he does the same to you simple like that sweetie

Your rights are what you make them...

sounds like a bad idea...

Have you researched and educated yourself on this?