I Believe Long Distance Relationship Can Work

Hmm not so sure sometimes. I've started seeing a guy who I went to school with from when we were 11. In fact he was my very first crush but I never told him cause he was always the popular jock & I was the quiet shy artist although athletic myself.
I hadn't seen him for 25 years & he found me on Facebook as we share mutual friends. My close family friend was his best friend growing up.
We come from a small town & I moved to the city which is 2 hours away. We've been seeing each other every few weeks for the last 2 months but haven't discussed where we're headed. I'm starting to miss him & not sure if I'm strong enough to do this long distance thing. I'm starting to fall in love with him. We text & message each other all day every day
What do I do?

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LuciferMorningstar · 56-60, M

You go with it. My sister lives with a guy she went to elementary school with now. When they started up, he was in FL ans she was in NJ. 2 hrs driving isnt that bad. If it was meant to happen, its meant to happen.

Florence · 46-50, F

I've got a strange feeling this one might be the one but a bit scared

LuciferMorningstar · 56-60, M

The 2 of you will have to talk eventually.

Sadwithasmile · 22-25, M

*speaks in nigérian accent* I am a nigérian price and wish to have a long distance marriage even with u. I wish to send u a sum of 60 qatrillion dollars but need u to send me all ur banking details. (It's a joke)

nuguitar · 51-55, M

Two hours isnt that far. Two months isnt that long. Sounds like you have a lot in common. Why are you unsure?

Florence · 46-50, F

We're actually good friends & train the same way. Lol I've been single for so long I don't know how to be with anyone

nuguitar · 51-55, M

@Florence: Sounds like your want to figure it out :-)

JS1992 · 31-35, M

long distance relationships are brutal. I was with a girl for 2 years while she went to college thousand miles away from me. I know how it feels. 2 hours away is not bad though. Just take the relationship at a slow pace

Florence · 46-50, F

We just live completely different lives although his family are hoping I'll be with him. Yeah slow is good advice

JS1992 · 31-35, M

Good luck

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

I wouldn't call e hrs "long distance." It is a hazard but not so great that you can't deal with it.

Florence · 46-50, F

Great advice thank you. I'll stay with him and see where it goes

monster007 · 46-50, F

jump from the bridge...

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

I've been making a LDR work that is 10 hrs drive away for almost 2 yrs.. It is flourishing...
Good Luck.. DO IT...

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