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Ynotisay · M
Once. You do it once. That's a self-respect thing.
Shavond · 51-55
@Ynotisay Once???? No relationship is perfect. Even families have disputes. I guess you are like Karen White when she said, "I'd rather be alone than unhappy." The problem with that is that being alone becomes boring and play out, eventually leading to depression.
Ynotisay · M
@Shavond Who said relationships are perfect? What I said is that your break up once. You either mean it or you don't. And yeah. I would MUCH rather be alone than unhappy. I run me. And as far as depression there's clinical depression and the there's the choice to be depressed. Don't choose it.
Shavond · 51-55
@Ynotisay 👍🏾

To refine this, consider:

Clarity & Conciseness – Some ideas are repeated in different ways. Streamlining sections would enhance readability and impact.

Structural Flow – Organizing it into clear sections with subheadings (e.g., "The Cycle of Breakups," "The Illusion of Change," "The Role of Loneliness") would improve coherence.

Engagement & Tone – Posing rhetorical questions is effective, but ensuring a balance between advice and exploration of different perspectives would make it more engaging.

Examples & Anecdotes – The examples provided are useful but could be more varied (e.g., friendships post-breakup, couples who successfully reconnected).
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Once an ex always an ex - the reasons two people broke up don't go away or change. I've stopped wanting or looking for romantic adult sexual connections now (I'm 56 btw).
Shavond · 51-55
@zonavar68 Interesting.....
masterofyou · 70-79, M
Nice book you just wrote, is it about you??

Most people write and give advice about their own misgivings....
masterofyou · 70-79, M
Make it shorter next time...it gets boring....
Shavond · 51-55
@masterofyou I don't get it!!! You asked me a question, and I answered you, but the response was unaccepting. If you already know the answer, why bother asking the question?
masterofyou · 70-79, M
@Shavond you people don't get anything ....
exexec · 70-79, C
Never for me. My wife broke up with several guys, but she managed to keep them as friends, just no dates.
KarenDuponteDurose · 46-50, F
Only - officially! - just the once with the woman, some 6 years later, I would get together and marry.

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Lilymoon · F
Once is enough
ArtieKat · M
Relationships are complicated.
Shavond · 51-55
@ArtieKat Relationships are you make them. You only get what you put in it. That is why having a good understanding of your mate is crucial.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Once an ex always an ex
@zonavar68 That's not true. An x can become a y under certain conditions. 🤣

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays ex not X 8-) Nothing to do with DNA etc.
@zonavar68 Never mind.
Wiseacre · F
Never more than once.
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Shavond · 51-55
@SStarfish To answer your question I wrote it. Why is that a concern for you? If you are offended, you can just ignore my writings and let others who have an appreciation benefit from it.

 
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