I told him if we have children, we're going to add the months of pregnancy & breastfeeding and when I'm done he's going to be their primary caregiver

for the next months combined. After that we'll be even and do everything on the same level.
So if I'm pregnant for 9 months and nurse for 6 months, he's going to do most of the work for the next 15 months.

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Renkon · M

Following your logic....

On average, a parent spends 18 years of their life caring for a child; investing time, effort, emotional energy, and money.So, then the next 18 years should be when the children take responsibility for their parents’ needs; financial support, care, and personal attention. Pampering them like their own children.

So the question is: are we doing that?

writhe

@Renkon no that's not my loguc at all, you just made that all up. I'm a believer that children do not owe their parents. Children are willing to take care of their parents only if they have been properly taken care of. And that's unconditional.