I told him if we have children, we're going to add the months of pregnancy & breastfeeding and when I'm done he's going to be their primary caregiver

for the next months combined. After that we'll be even and do everything on the same level.
So if I'm pregnant for 9 months and nurse for 6 months, he's going to do most of the work for the next 15 months.

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Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

It would be best you do not have children.

Does he work, I hope he's does?

writhe

@Chiefjustice we both work

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@writhe that is fair, i'm not sure what type of maternity leave You will get.
Do you want children?I don't get the feeling that you do?

writhe

@Chiefjustice I wouldn't mind having with him specifically.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@writhe well, it sounds like he's a worthy man.
Having a children is one thing.But raising them is the hardest part.
There's no manual instructions or training for it.
Every child is different, their needs are different. I was studied children for my university courses.

A mother's love, affection and touchI touch can never be replaced/ substituted by a father. A father must know his role as he plays a certain p
role in the upbringing of a child.

Helping in raising a child is crucial.

writhe

@Chiefjustice I disagree with the latter half of your message. A worthy man wants to raise children, not help raise. And a father's love, affection and touch is no different. That's why that journey should start when they're as young as possible. A mother cannot be replaced only as far as our biological differences are concerned. Mentally and emotionally fathers should strive to be as good as their partners.