I want a husband who is generous and kind

And to be honest would help me go back to school by paying my college tuition for my college degrees, and get my vocational certificates and diplomas online. I also want help when working part time for a career. I would love to work 25-35 hours per week but be on my spouses insurance and have them take care of me so I don’t have to be on supplemental security income or pay for my own self employed health insurance. So what if I was partially a kept woman by someone who was kind and generous. Sometimes I wish I had a husband who was kind and compassionate but also had a comfortable income. Doesn’t have to be rich but makes enough to provide for two people and I work part time almost full time. Someone I could love but who would give me another opportunity at iife. Is it wrong to want to feel financial security and also love and affection at same time?

ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M

Sorry to ask, if you work for 35 hours a week + classes + sleep + traveling and other daily personal chores when will you have time for being a couple.

Won't you be tired?

I can fully take care of my partner but I would expect them to spend time with me without being exhausted already.

They can try harder but I don't want someone I love to suffer because of me.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

At one point when I was more financially comfortable I had men attaching to me like barnacles. I quickly withdrew generosity because I realized why they actually wanted me. To keep them like a muse, only they didn't inspire me to be anything but drained.

It's fine to wish for these things, but maybe not disappointed if it doesn't happen. Work towards taking care of yourself.

MentalDisturbance · 36-40

Not at all. I have learning issue, can’t read that well. So I need someone to help navigate shit with me. Like more than anything I’d need people that can help me, not just one and them be the other half because that’s not feasible for me. It’s too much to expect one person to handle and deal with all my difficulties on any given day. I am the way I am and only get more difficult as time goes on. But that’s my more an accurate description of my nature. It’s a functional (where and how possible) effective cluster fuck.