so-called 'female led' dating models and sites

Bumble, etc. for dating sites that claim to orient with a 'female-led audience base'.

I've been in a female-led lesbian relationship (where I wasn't the leader though it sometimes did 'switch') and even for me I found it different and challenging to what I accept as the normal romantic relationship narrative.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

I've recently tried Bumble - the so called 'female led' version of Tinder. But like with Tinder, no legit connections (except the one women I got the ick with recently), and you cannot see who 'likes' you without buying a paid subscription, same as pretty much all other dating sites do now.

I read that as a way to feed the AI bot's that create most 'female' profiles on those sites now in that unless you subscribe, you don't get any sort of 'contacts' fed to you then once you do subscribe, the bots 'tease' you to try and keep you locked in to the romance scam model of business.

I deleted my 'trial presence' on it yesterday. Apart from the one person, absolutely zero other people had actually contacted me in about 5 to 6 months of having a presence on it. Hypergamy rules everything about women's 'choosing signals' even moreso in the online space. I'm not a Giga/Chad with 666-rule compliant physical features.