so-called 'female led' dating models and sites

Bumble, etc. for dating sites that claim to orient with a 'female-led audience base'.

I've been in a female-led lesbian relationship (where I wasn't the leader though it sometimes did 'switch') and even for me I found it different and challenging to what I accept as the normal romantic relationship narrative.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

I've recently tried Bumble - the so called 'female led' version of Tinder. But like with Tinder, no legit connections (except the one women I got the ick with recently), and you cannot see who 'likes' you without buying a paid subscription, same as pretty much all other dating sites do now.

I read that as a way to feed the AI bot's that create most 'female' profiles on those sites now in that unless you subscribe, you don't get any sort of 'contacts' fed to you then once you do subscribe, the bots 'tease' you to try and keep you locked in to the romance scam model of business.

I deleted my 'trial presence' on it yesterday. Apart from the one person, absolutely zero other people had actually contacted me in about 5 to 6 months of having a presence on it. Hypergamy rules everything about women's 'choosing signals' even moreso in the online space. I'm not a Giga/Chad with 666-rule compliant physical features.

Nevertooold · 56-60, M

It's been extremely hard to find women interested in an FLR....I'm giving up:)

butterflybaby75 · 41-45, F

@Nevertooold There could be dating sites specifically for that. Tried feeld? elite singles? ashley madison?

Bit of feedback - I just tried to load elite singles out of interest and got told Australian's are geo-blocked from using it. Probably a good thing I guess. I'm not on dating sites of any sort anymore.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@butterflybaby75 Bumble is touted as the 'female led' premier dating site, but in my experience it's no better than the bottom-feeding hookup sites like Tinder, etc.

Nevertooold · 56-60, M

Thanks...I'll check them out:)

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