I Am Faithful

I find it hard to believe that humans can be faithful to each other. The older I get the more I am finding this to be true. I do not think it is in our nature.

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bijouxbroussard · F

But you can’t speak to everyone’s nature and what others can [b]choose[/b] to do. The thing about [b]being[/b] human is that we make conscious choices all the time.

Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F

@bijouxbroussard Yes that is very true.

voodoo1970 · 51-55, M

@bijouxbroussard Monogamy is a choice, and it works well for many people. However not every has tbe impulse control to stick with it, alternatively many people don't WANT to stay monogamous. It's a problem when a couple with different choices are trying to stay together.
I know I couldn't be faithful to one person long term, so I refuse to get into long-term relationships becauyse it wouldn't be fair to the other person.

bijouxbroussard · F

@voodoo1970 That’s fine, and I agree, it’s fair to let someone know going in, so that they can make an informed decision to get involved or not. I also let people know that I’m not looking for anything casual, because I know I want more.