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I find it really funny that guys want the perfect hot girlfriend meanwhile they do no work on themselves. Smh look in the mirror dude.
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WanderLustChick 路 31-35, F
@Tatsumi in my experience it's just more common for guys to have unrealistic aspectations for partners.
Tatsumi 路 31-35, M
@WanderLustChick Expectation and desire are two different things.
That's pretty funny, to me. Given how women are always talking about "where did all the *good* men go." Or talking about how they're "worth more than that." Females often value themselves a lot more than their actual worth.
You got the shit backwards. At least, generally speaking. I'm not saying your experiences are wrong. But, you're speaking generally. And that is incorrect. Pretty much scientifically, since women overvalue themselves and have profoundly higher expectations than males, by genetic design. Fewer reproductive resources = more important gender = more picky. I could go on with societal factors, but idrc.
Main point: desire and expectation are two different things. No one is wrong for wanting pretty much anything.
That's pretty funny, to me. Given how women are always talking about "where did all the *good* men go." Or talking about how they're "worth more than that." Females often value themselves a lot more than their actual worth.
You got the shit backwards. At least, generally speaking. I'm not saying your experiences are wrong. But, you're speaking generally. And that is incorrect. Pretty much scientifically, since women overvalue themselves and have profoundly higher expectations than males, by genetic design. Fewer reproductive resources = more important gender = more picky. I could go on with societal factors, but idrc.
Main point: desire and expectation are two different things. No one is wrong for wanting pretty much anything.
WanderLustChick 路 31-35, F
@Tatsumi ugh. Alright you are taking this to a whole other level..
Tatsumi 路 31-35, M
@WanderLustChick Well, yeah. Your post was full of shit, and it hurt my nose.
WanderLustChick 路 31-35, F
@Tatsumi it's not really. You sound a little butt hurt to me.
Tatsumi 路 31-35, M
@WanderLustChick It really is. All you would have to fo is tweak the wording, and it wouldn't be.
I get that a lot. But it's just because of my liberal use of curse words, since text doesn't convey tone.
I get that a lot. But it's just because of my liberal use of curse words, since text doesn't convey tone.
WanderLustChick 路 31-35, F
@Tatsumi all I'm stating is that some men have unrealistic expectations for a mate. Wanting super fit or attractive gf when your super unfit or unattractive. That's all I'm saying 9 times out of 10 it isn't going to happen. I never said women don't do it too but fuck it is much more common for men to do it. Lol look at all the memes for Christ sake.
Tatsumi 路 31-35, M
@WanderLustChick And that's not true, either, since men and women look for different things. If women only looked at attractiveness like men pretty much do, then it'd be true. But you're comparing apples and oranges, first of all.
But, women want a lot more than that, and can take or leqve attractiveness, if other qualities make up for it--unlike men. If a dude is butt ugly, but super rich, there you go: tons of models at his doorstep. That wouldn't happen with a rich, but butt-ugly woman. We look at different things.
It's really not more common for men. When both are single. There are a lot more single men, because women tend to get inundated by requests, whereas men have to work at it to find and woo women.
Men are also just generally more frustrated, due to having less opportunities than women--thus, memes.
Female expectation is much higher, to the point where they will dump a 9 in their 20s, because they think they're worth a 10. Then they age, lose their looks, and end up having to settle for a 5 or 6. Very common issue.
Men are just more frustrated, thus louder. And more common.
But, women want a lot more than that, and can take or leqve attractiveness, if other qualities make up for it--unlike men. If a dude is butt ugly, but super rich, there you go: tons of models at his doorstep. That wouldn't happen with a rich, but butt-ugly woman. We look at different things.
It's really not more common for men. When both are single. There are a lot more single men, because women tend to get inundated by requests, whereas men have to work at it to find and woo women.
Men are also just generally more frustrated, due to having less opportunities than women--thus, memes.
Female expectation is much higher, to the point where they will dump a 9 in their 20s, because they think they're worth a 10. Then they age, lose their looks, and end up having to settle for a 5 or 6. Very common issue.
Men are just more frustrated, thus louder. And more common.
Tatsumi 路 31-35, M
@WanderLustChick Actually. Guess I proved you right............ Well, there's why it's more common with men. There are more single men. If women were equally frustrated, then they would be louder about it, and you would hear it more often. But, women still have waaaaaaay higher and way more unrealistic expectations.
WanderLustChick 路 31-35, F
@Tatsumi yeah..let's call this one a draw..