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Is having a boner in public as bad as some describe it or does it feel good at all?

Like does getting one make you feel a little sense of power at least? I could see how it'd be awkward in a place like a church or something but other than that it can't be that bad right?
IDontWant2BeLoved · 26-30, F
Imagine them being surprised to see their aunt when they get home & all of a sudden she comes up to him like "jimmy! Come give aunti cindy a hug! *squeeze*...whats that?
chrisCA · M
@IDontWant2BeLoved: [image deleted]
LionsLair · 26-30, F
@IDontWant2BeLoved: good point lol
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
Can be painful, actually, in my experience. Being fairly well endowed, clothing will sometimes force it into really awkward positions that are pretty damn uncomfortable. And it's impossible to hide without physically blocking view of it, so that's a thing.

And that's still not even getting into if anyone tries to hug me while I have one. I'm not embarrassed easily, but I can't imagine that slipping past their notice.
ddt333 · 56-60, M
Stop describing my teenage years. LOL
chrisCA · M
@ddt333: Mine too.
LionsLair · 26-30, F
lmao 😂
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
I would just find that highly embarrassing.
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Not a fun time. Lol
TexChik · F
I guess it would be as embarrassing as hard nipples poking through your clothing in public ... or maybe a camel
Toe. It's just not socially acceptable for men to sport a describable erection in public .
chrisCA · M
@TexChik: One reason guys should not wear sweat pants in public.
Frankie13 · 46-50, M
I still get them often and I don’t mind usually. Depends how hard it is cause I don’t wear undies so if it’s rock hard then it stands out so depends who sees it depends on how I feel about it
chrisCA · M
Those hymn books came in handy during Mass.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@chrisCA Take pride in that man. Their are some hot ladies in that services
chrisCA · M
@bhatjc I was a teen at the time, and found Mass boring. So I checked out the girls. 😅
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@chrisCA Nothing wrong with that man. Checking out all the lovely ladies in your church
For the most part you are right. But if you are wearing certain things like tighter fitting jeans for example it can get downright uncomfortable.
ddt333 · 56-60, M
No, it's always bad and awkward. Now that I'm older though, it doesn't really happen much at all.......unlike being a teenage boy when it happens more often.
I don't mind if it happens. But I try not to let it show to be considerate to others that don't want to see it
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
It's exciting but embarrassing :P Better if you get to relieve yourself :)
LionsLair · 26-30, F
@JimboSaturn hahaha I bet
SW-User
when young, it's pretty much the definition of awkward. either you're letting you uncontrolled desire show - you have no self control or it's there and you aren't actually interested in anyone who might notice. it's really only an issue for guys under 23 or so, I think.
westwiiler · 51-55, M
I wouldn't call it power. Now if I could get your panties wet on public..... That's power..... LOL.... If you were getting me to sport wood in public, that would be be your power over me.
LionsLair · 26-30, F
@westwiiler lol never though of it that way
westwiiler · 51-55, M
@LionsLair it's all about perspective
Sicarium · 46-50, M
It's not a big deal once you learn the golden rule. When in doubt, whip it out.
redredred · M
@Sicarium: that's Latin for, "When in doubt, whip it out"
Sicarium · 46-50, M
@redredred: You're making it weird...
redredred · M
@Sicarium: I don't think it weird to note that the expression you used has its origin in the Roman Empire. Men haven't changed much.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
Depends on where I am. I can tuck away my Johnson, but I can never tuck away the shame. It can happen any time, it can happen anywhere. Even when the Lockness Monster decides he wants to randomly come up for air.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
It was annoying when I was young because it was hard to control and hard to conceal.

Nowadays that does not happen. Even if I get aroused I do not get much of a noticeable erection.
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redredred · M
Having an erection feels wonderful. I'm no longer concerned about people noticing, I just enjoy.
SW-User
No it's a great feeling just at times embarrassing and inappropriate
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
It's a little awkward when it first starts happening, but at this point, I just own it. xD
hlpflwthat · M
It can't be wrong. All hail the dong.
Seriously? Ok, well why don't you tell me what you think of a strange guy getting wood in public
LionsLair · 26-30, F
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP: I've nvr seen it lol
Dederp · 31-35, M
Uhhhhh it does a tiny bit for me but it really depends where I am. Like for example if it happens at a store, I'm like "No. Not in front of the children! Why have you forsaken me, Lord?" and then try to hide it as best as possible. So yeah I guess it really depends where I am. I'm new here btw.
Most of the time, I love the feel of getting one. And most of the time, I'm able to conceal that fact even in public.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
IT really depends on where
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
it's horrible
Tukudo · 41-45, M
Just natural! 😜
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