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Well I think it depends on what the couple views as okay or not okay in their relationship, and there's also obvious boundaries that shouldn't be crossed when in a relationship. I think flirting initiates something and because of that I don't think flirting is ever harmless in my opinion. So yes I think it is cheating I guess 🤔
@StevetheSleeve: 😂🙄 you're so terrible at flirting.
@Magenta: I was honestly taking it from my personal experiences. Although I'm not in a relationship many people on here are and I know where flirting can lead to sometimes 🙂
Magenta · F
Indeed. Me too. :-)
WildHeart · 41-45, F
Yes, if you're in a committed relationship
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WildHeart · 41-45, F
@TattoosAndPiercings: No dear you are only sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that.
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@WiseGirl: not advisable if you are in a relationship
Depends on the couple's agreement and how the person flirting would feel if his or her partner was doing it.
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
@bijouxbroussard: This.
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Depends on the person, I guess. I don't consider it cheating.
Danez · M
Depends on the intent of the flirting. There is innocent flirting, like a smile at someone that you make eye contact with. (Not cheating)

And there is intentional flirting where you playfully flirt, like with a coworker that has no intent other than sexual innuendos. (Not cheating)

And then then there is flirting with purpose where you are out having a drink and you see someone and send them a drink and strike up a conversation with them with the playful flirtatious conversation that leads to a hand on someone's knee or leg. (If you wouldn't want your bf or gf to see you doing this then this would be considered cheating)
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depends on your relationship with the other person. i would think a lot of people would find that cheating if they were in the average relationship. there are people who are more open in their relationships and they just dont care just as long as they know with who.
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Magenta · F
Not to me, but it's a fine line. Why would one feel the need to if they are in love with someone. I guess to feed the ego.
Would depend on how you, and your partner looks at it. For some it is, for others it's not.
Highway · 46-50, M
Yes and I want to belive that there are differetn levels of cheating.. it is a mild one, not like.. you know
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bhatjc · 46-50, M
@SW-User Right on
Maggimay · 46-50, F
no. i keeps the soul young.
SW-User
I doubt it.
SW-User
committed monogamous relationship, i would say yea
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
No, flirting is different then fooling around. I had a spouse who flirted and cheated, i have one now that only flirts and Never takes it any farther. I flirt and Never take it any farther
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
No. I have had a flirting thing with married women. It is understood that I respect them and their marriage.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
If the love is strong between you two. Then you should not have to worry
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"You look beautiful" and variations of that line: close, but no.
"You are going to make me cum!" or variations of that line: yes.
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@lovingcanheal: Thank you. I agree. I think I was really on top of my game with that comment. 😀
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
It can be in the wrong context
Jammer6475 · 46-50, M
Depends on the type of flirting
Faust76 · 46-50, M
Only if you do it right.
doodatt · 61-69, M
I don't think so
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No I don't think so
ThePenguin · 31-35, M
louisesoulstar · 26-30, F
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
Not at all
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
rupert · 41-45, M
Jesus God, No!
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
There's a line somewhere around there. I wouldn't mind casual friendly flirting because it's part of the everyday human conversation, but as soon as there's a motive behind it, you better check yourself in the mirror because that is cheating.

 
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