When a partner wishes to control you but is doing it " out of love "?
Is it acceptable??? I don't think so. I mean they either like you, or they don't.... otherwise it's like you are their pet project
41-45, M
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HatsOnFrogs · 22-25, M
Again, ive always said this and always will, it's not acceptable. However, it can be remedied if we look at the reasons people do this sort of thing. Acknowledging that people do bad things not because theyre bad, but to try and attain a certain goal, is not excusing people, but trying to prevent it in the future.
SW-User
No, could possibly be a codependent thing or they just are control freaks but either way it's not cool.
Shayla · F
I enjoy my partner taking some control, but it has to be mutually agreed upon.
shanester22 · 41-45, M
@Shayla, ah but that's a different thing. It's kinda already mutually agreed upon....
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Trying to control another person in any way is not love. Love is acceptance.
SW-User
No it is not acceptable at all
shanester22 · 41-45, M
InfiniteBlue. I agree