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How do you deal with

Someone who never accepts their mistakes or faults.... makes up every excuse possible to put the blame on you even when the truth is right in of their face...
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BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F
I'm rooting for the Special Prosecutor.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Let em. If they're right the truth will eventually sink in and I have work to do on myself. If not, their mistakes aren't my problem.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
They either have no self awareness or they're a manipulative sociopath.

Study up on how to spot a sociopath (I can help you with that).

If you conclude that this person is a sociopath: work on detaching yourself from them and getting away. I know it's really hard and it will take awhile.

If you conclude that they're not a sociopath: work on your communication skills. I know, they're the one with the problem. But by improving yourself, you'll influence them to improve, too.
Ceecee · 46-50, F
@InvaderNice: thank you....
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
@Ceecee: You're welcome. I have a passion for this kind of thing so please tell me if there's anything else I can help with.
Ceecee · 46-50, F
Thank you .... I appreciate it....
Uncfred · 61-69, M
I have met this, and it makes it very difficult to get through to them. There is a mental barrier that prevents them from understanding their faults.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
well my wife got my attention by leaving me
when it was the first one I blamed she had changed and she was the problem ,
when my second wife left who I adored ,I got the message loud and clear
I was the problem
Ceecee · 46-50, F
@rckt148: I'm sorry for all involved.... I hope you're all doing well..
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@Ceecee: yes its true ,if it does not kill you it makes you stronger
and time does heal all wounds ,,
but damn what an expensive lesson
Ceecee · 46-50, F
@rckt148: I'm sure it was... I'm glad you're doing well
SW-User
Have 0 expectation from them.......Ignore them if you can.
SmartKat · 61-69, F
Vote them out.
Ceecee · 46-50, F
@SmartKat: I'll still be at fault In his eyes lol...
SmartKat · 61-69, F
@Ceecee: It's time we stopped caring what narcissistic bullies think. F--- them.
SW-User
Oh ,no ...nah uhh ...no they don't ... no one is perfect .. it's important to take responsibility for our own actions
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bobby1975 · F
Always two sides to the story. Most will blame others. Take responsibility for ourselves.
mrmoose · 70-79, M
walk away, then run
Ceecee · 46-50, F
SW-User
Ignore them and move on
Gemineye · 61-69, M
Shoot them.
Ceecee · 46-50, F
@Gemineye: lol...

 
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