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NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F
I'm hoping he'll change because sometimes people learn their lessons after something like this, but if not then we're done with. I'm certainly never getting into a car with him again unless I'm the one driving. He has a lot of growing up to do and if he can't do it then I see no point in being in a relationship because at that point it will be a hazard to my sanity as well as my safety.
fdurst · 61-69, M
Is he accepting the responsibility or is he fobbing it off? That will tell you what you need to know to make your next steps.
my goat was arrested for the same thing.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Should be a clue and a wake-up call for you....none of us are invincible.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
You'd be wise not to be serious about him if he doesn't change....some people do not grow up, and it could be a sign of narcissism if he thought he was too smart to get caught.
NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F
It's only been a few months and this is the only major screw up he's done. If I don't feel like he's changing in the next couple of months then I'm just going to end our relationship.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Naturally: You sound like me when I was first married to my ex-husband...I gave him 10 years and he never changed.

SW-User
Depends on if he was guilty of what he got arrested for
I really hope it works out for the best.

SW-User
I really wouldn't stay with somebody who behaves like that .-.
They might be trouble
They might be trouble
buddyhilly · 56-60, M
leave him, there are load so fdecent fun guys why stay with him
PeanutsauntieP1982 · 41-45, F
Let him go. Sorry you've had a bad day too.
UserNameSW · 46-50, M
Repeat after me
Bye bye birdie
Bye bye birdie
Sueisright · 31-35, F
Leopards and spots
Cosreal · 36-40
nothing new.
Leave
Sueisright · 31-35, F
Bye bye
NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F
cherokeepatti: I wouldn't say it's a wake up call for me. I told him countless times to stop, in which he said he would. He's the difficult type of person who won't listen and has to learn things for himself. Hopefully this is a wake up call for him and he'll never do something so stupid again. If not then I can't stay with someone like that.
Next time Natural. .
You could be killed.
That is not drama.
You could be killed.
That is not drama.
Your goat was drunk 🙄
Goralski · 56-60, M
No biggie unless they find a dead hooker in d trunk