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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
Thefightingangel · 31-35, M
@betweenfatandfit: I know I wish I could speed up the time so this hurt can go away so I can finally let it go. Its hard because she was everything to me and someone who I thought would never hurt me. She was always there when I needed her so its so hard to let that and all our memories and talks go. But I know if I keep her in my life I will just be living a lie in denial.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
@Thefightingangel: You are already smarter than I was. I didn't want to let go of all be had built together and so I made it more painful and take a lot more time than it should have. It will suck and it will suck for a while, but you won't regret it. You fill up your time with friends and things you enjoy set out some new goals for the time ahead and you will be happier than you were before this trust was broken. If you need to ever vent you can message me no judgment otherwise I wish you the best of luck on this journey.
Thefightingangel · 31-35, M
@betweenfatandfit: that makes so much sense and I can see it and like how even you say you went through it but I'm scared to not have her in my life. Basically she was all I had at one point in my life she would always try to motivate me. It would leave a big hole in my life but I can already feel myself pull away from her but its that last goodbye to her that is hard to say. I do have some postitive changes in my life coming up that will make me happy and like you say it will fill the time with other parts of my life. I just know I could never replace her. Wow thank you so much yea that would be great if i could message you if I need someone to vent about her. Its funny like for this exact situation she would be the one I'd talk to but right now she is the reason I'm feeling somewhat broken so that's why its just a messed up situation
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F