How do you forgive someone who broke you?

Broke your trust,heart,etc

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You don't. Forgiveness isn't for them it's for your self. Shit, I forgive myself for allowing someone else to put me through bullshit. I forgive myself for not loving myself enough to have left them in the first place.

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: I respect that. The hard part is letting that person go

Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 31-35, F

Yeah but it has to be done. In time it'll make sense why it was for the best.@Thefightingangel:

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: absolutely when the time finally passes, but until them its going to hurt. It sucks but I guess that's life

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

*then*

Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 31-35, F

Life sucks period. I'm starting to learn this as I continue getting older@Thefightingangel:

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: I know right hopefully we don't have to keep going through this bs from people we trust

Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 31-35, F

Hopefully.. that's would I would love to think but I wouldn't put anything past anyone and oddly enough the ones that we live and trust the most tend to be the ones to usually cause so much pain.@Thefightingangel:

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: that's is a painful truth. I think that's what love and trust is. They have the power to hurt us the most.

Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 31-35, F

Yeah, and now that I think of it I'm not sure I want to give anyone the power to hurt me again@Thefightingangel:

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: I know right! I feel the same way. Maybe we should always be prepared to be betrayed by someone so when it happens it doesn't hurt as bad

Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 31-35, F

I think so as well although it sucks that you can't love freely without being so damn scared that this person could potentially just hurt you in the worst way.@Thefightingangel:

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: yea I admit it is a good feeling when you feel like you can trust someone completely and feel good when they are there when you need them. But I guess we can trust someone and hope they don't hurt us, or we can not trust anyone again but rob ourselves of having special relationships friendships.

Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 31-35, F

Sigh... and this my friend is one of the many reasons that I believe that I will end up alone. @Thefightingangel:

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: me too but if you think about if we stop trusting people then that person that hurt us won. We need to stop letting their betrayal weighing us down, the best we can do is just be more careful when we trust someone again. Hopefully some day we will meet someone who will never let us down

Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 31-35, F

You're right. I wish you much luck on this journey that we call life.😘🤗@Thefightingangel:

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: thank you so much. I wish you the best too!