How do you forgive someone who broke you?

Broke your trust,heart,etc

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rottenrobi · 56-60, F Best Comment

You just do, its not for them, its for you. It doesn't pardon the actions, it simply frees you up to move on. They f'd you up, I get it. Mine did the same to me. I didn't want to waste one more minute thinking about him or anything he did to me. So I forgave him. My guy is a mess. I can't fix him and he can't take any of it back. Let this person go. You will feel so much better when you are free of replaying the hurt over and over.

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@rottenrobi: wow I'm sorry you experienced that, but what you said makes perfect sense. Its very hard to do, I respect you for making that decision. I hope I'm strong enough to let her go. Thank you for your wise advice

rottenrobi · 56-60, F

You are strong enough, and when you're ready, it will happen. Thank you for your comment and for the best answer. This topic is very important to me, and if I helped you in some way, well that makes me very happy.
You've got this.

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@rottenrobi: your very welcome.yes you did help me. thank you I will try to be strong and let her go.

rottenrobi · 56-60, F

You'll be so much better for doing it. Good luck.

Thefightingangel · 31-35, M

@rottenrobi: thank you, I might post a story about it on here so I can share with everyone the story and understand better my situation with her. Thank you again

rottenrobi · 56-60, F

I will watch for it.