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Would you give up on the person that you love?

If your answer is yes than do you really love them or did you lose your love for them at the same time you gave up on them?
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M Best Comment
i don't want to. but cancer wants her more.


fucking pisses me off.. i feel i earned her more.
Makemeluvit · 36-40, F
@sighmeupforthat: I'm so very very sorry- you have and you are
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
@Makemeluvit: i won't give up on her.. but i'm afraid i'll have to give her up.


:/ eh, i wish everything could be dr. mccoy'd!
Makemeluvit · 36-40, F
I do too- she's so fortunate to have you in her life caring and supporting her through such a tough and traumatic experience

Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
It's complicated. I had loved one girl for years but it was never reciprocated. then she married someone else, got divorced and wanted help. After helping the relationship again went back to no contact. So my mind finally put two and two together and "click", it was over.
DanyaEllen · 26-30, F
Sometimes, You don't have any option. I just ended it with the one I loved, for being abusive. I stayed in hopes he would actually change, and it went from emotional abuse to him hitting me in my face. I'm sorry, but sometimes you have to cut your loses, and realize that you can't help them. I love and miss the guy everyday, but it will only get worse if you stay.
geostorm26 · 26-30, M
@DanyaEllen I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you're in a better place now.
gummybears · F
I will love him forever
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I gave her up. She loved another person and me. I didn't want to complicate matters. It was bad enough she wasn't faithful, I didn't make her a better person. She cheated, lied to me and became immorally bankrupt
SW-User
Well...
it happened with me.
but what can I do...if that person is hiding things ..
I think in love ,one should be honest with their partner.One should not cheat over other.
if these things don't happen in love ...then I think Giving up on that person is great idea.
they don't want to understand your anxiety ,your deep attention ,your honest love ,they don't want someone who always think and take about them.

I think these kinds of people don't deserve true love .
And they'll definitely repent on their decisions..somewhere in future.
right now they are not watching anything ..they are just blind in glory and money and followingrich guys..

I would definitely give up on These people.
There comes a time, when you must realize, that your hope is not to be. If this feeling is not reciprocated? Then it should be let go of.
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will try my best but I have my limits when it gets toxic
Loving someone isn't the same as wasting your life waiting for them to get their shit together
Only when they betrade my trust. Once my trust is gone... my love for him walks away too... :(
alterlife · 26-30, F
I would, depending. Unconditional love does not exist.
SW-User
Yes, sometimes it's for the best!
Sometimes you gotta.
It depends on the situation. This will probably sound awful, but in the final analysis I love myself enough that I wouldn’t stay with someone who abused me or didn’t value me. That’s not love either, IMO. It’s codependency, or martyrdom. Short of that, though, when I do love someone I love them forever.

 
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