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My boyfriend wants me to meet his son. I'm nervous yet excited, any advice?

So my boyfriend's son is coming to visit for a few weeks. I never met him, but I'm confident he's a cool dude just like his dad. So, he just asked me to join them on vacation for Father's Day and booked the flight so now I'm even more nervous than before. Any and all advice is greatly appreciated. Also, me and the dad are 14 years apart and the son and I are also 14 years apart (just in case that matters). I'm awkward and not completely sure how to interact with him. I want him to feel comfortable and know that he will always be his father's number one priority. This trip is for them and it is a privilege to be invited. I want us all to have a wonderful, memorable time.
Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 26-30, F
Just be yourself! Be nice to the kid and cherish the moments that you guys are sharing because it's a privilege! Find out what his son likes and engage him in those activities, be sure to make the effort to get to know his kid, don't force anything and let it happen naturally.
thepixiestixs · 26-30, F
@Angelwithbrokenwingxo: Thank you! And I will definitely keep note of that. I know he's into computers like his daddy, so maybe I'll do a little research so I can try to understand what's going on lol.
Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 26-30, F
You're welcome! You'll do fine. Have fun!!@thepixiestixs:
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thepixiestixs · 26-30, F
@OWTFWN: 😂
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thepixiestixs · 26-30, F
@OWTFWN: Hell no! Not too fond of this heat, but I'll take it. Where I'm from there's no such thing as snow; it's just a bunch of frozen white ice.
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thepixiestixs · 26-30, F
@lacsar: Thank you! I'll try to remember that. Just have to make sure to add a few (language) filters lol.
I suspect you'll be perfect because you care so much to make this relationship work
Don't stress just be yourself
He will love you
thepixiestixs · 26-30, F
@KnightMoves: Thank you so much. I appreciate it so much, honestly.
They are lucky you are in their lives
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thepixiestixs · 26-30, F
@1957Mike: Thank you :)
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
How old is he?
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thepixiestixs · 26-30, F
@BlueMetalChick: My BF's son is 8. I'm not sure how this escalated in such a rapid manner, but I apologize on his behalf. That kind of behavior exhibited by Lacsar is never acceptable nor will it be tolerated on my post.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@thepixiestixs: He does this all the time. He has a raging hateboner for me and follows me around SW slinging insults at me because I made fun of him in public for being a really bad liar.
You will do fine - step back and smile and be yourself
thepixiestixs · 26-30, F
@Dancmemomisme: I'll try. Just have to keep my nerves calm.
olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
be cool..you will love him and he will love you

 
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