Have you ever been betrayed by someone you never expected?
Its such a letdown. I invested a lot of myself in them and it makes me feel empty. I regret giving them so much of myself and trusting them.
31-35, M
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I have. :'( It is more than a let down..It crushes the soul...Of course I guess that depends on how closely one is attached to the betrayer. I've never yet been betrayed that I didn't feel deep anguish. I always regret trusting individuals....It never fails..If we expected it, then it most likely would never happen. Because of the deep hurt that is attached to betrayal for me, I will only tell ANY human being but so much now and NEVER trust any for all things! NEVER!
Thefightingangel · 31-35, M
@DixieChick: I know it makes you question who you are. In my case this person was like a part of me and was like my rock at one point. It feels like heartbreak because you can actually feel a hole in your life. That's how it felt for me. I'm sorry you experienced it too:( we can't let those people ruin our trust in future friendships and relationships we would only be hurting ourselves.
Thefightingangel · 31-35, M
@DixieChick: well in my case when I had low self-esteem this person reminded me who I was and made me feel special. So when they betrayed me I was confused about who I was. Its not the same for everyone just in my case