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Men tell me something, Why do you like to be challenged in a relationship (please read and honest answers please)?

My boyfriend who I was dating for only 2 months dumped me because I wouldn't be "honest with him. He got irritated and fed up when I agree with him with mostly EVERYTHING. Like when we go on dates I usually let him pick and I agree. He said I should choose for once and I don't have to like everything he does. He also got annoyed when I agreed with him with everything. He was like, "STOP AGREEING WITH ME! For once would you DISAGREE with me?!"
I told him that I wanna make him happy and it is polite to not make someone mad thank you. And he got so annoyed with me. I always compliment him a couple of times a day, I smile all the time and all that. He told me to not agree with him to make him happy and get got after me for sugarcoating the truth about something (It's personal) and he earned me if it happens again, we're over and we've had arguments about it. I told him politely, "It isn't polite to yell and we should be calm and happy. I told him to use proper manners and he just got very irritated with me. I also tend to let people run over me but I isn't wanna make them angry. My friends are very annoyed that I'm overly nice and polite. I always say, "Thank you for having this talk with me. I am delighted that we did." My boyfriend dumped Monday because I tend to agree and sugarcoat stuff. Some people told me that overly nice and polite people are annoying and men want a challenge in a relationship? Why?
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Speaking for myself only, I want a partner that would help grow as a person, challenge my thoughts, push me towards my ambitions.. I would do the same for them..

If I had a person that just agreed with everything I wanted to do, say or eat.. Then I might as well just be with myself, because other then sex, she doesn't have much to offer
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@ECHO22: So you wanna be pushed on and hard?
No, Just make each other better at being open and honest and achieving the things we want.
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@ECHO22: I still wanna work things out. I called him yeaterday and I told him I wanted to work things out but he said that Ive teen telling him that I will change and well be more hoenst but I always keep lying to him and be doesn't wanna be with liar. He said he wants a REAL woman that can be honest with him and not play with his feelings by sugarcoating and lying to him. He said goodbye for good and hung up.
@MissNiceGirl: Be honest with yourself, what do you want of life.. If it's pleasing someone, you have to find a guys that's okay with that.. You will find the right person for you.. doesn't sound like he is the one
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@ECHO22: i still love him
@MissNiceGirl: That's okay, he may love you, but; together it will just turn into hate
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@MissNiceGirl: you don't love him. You love being needed.