Speaking for myself only, I want a partner that would help grow as a person, challenge my thoughts, push me towards my ambitions.. I would do the same for them..

If I had a person that just agreed with everything I wanted to do, say or eat.. Then I might as well just be with myself, because other then sex, she doesn't have much to offer

Because ,you are a fake, sorry no nice way to put that you are a nicey nice fake, but still a fake. It gets irritating being around people with whom you cannot tell what is really going on with them. Perhaps they do not feel they have the right to express themselves openly.
You want someone who can sympathize with you and cry with you when you feel badly not tell you to be something your not because the other person cannot handle reality.

Just be yourself.. pick your battles.. Are you like this in all your relationships? Because then you're just becoming a chameleon and that is annoying. You're just setting yourself up for failure if you're not going to be your own person with whoever you are with..

Nobody wants to fuck a doormat.

Frankly I think this goes both ways. Especially at the beginning of relationships.

Simple advice: be who you are and be prepared to walk away if they can't accept it.

Well I'm going to be very honest with you. You sound very annoying and all he wanted you to do is to be real with yourself and honest with your opinions and feelings. He wanted you to be honest with him but you just kept lying it him to make him happy but it make him feel worse. Nobody wants to be with a passive, overly nice person that lies all the time. Sorry to be harsh but who wants to date a doormat. I admit I would have trouble speaking up for myself and still do at times but I say my honest feelings and not sugarcoat it. You gotta be true to yourself otherwise how are people going to respect you if you keep lying?

People will want you for you....they want you because of who you are, not because you agree with them. You're important for the things that make you different

Any wonder he dumped your sorry arse as you are a LIAR

nice try. generalizing people will do only one thing for you.


make you lonely.

That is freaking annoying and frustrating. You can never trust what the person is saying to you and always leaves you guessing. He never got a chance to know you and how to relate to you because you were always just agreeing with him. It's like dating a robot.
It's not about wanting to be challenged, it's about wanting the truth and the experience of another personality.