People are just so complicated, and its exhausting..
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I really wish you well in making friends! It is true people are complicated but are you maybe getting stuck on that? You don't need to understand someone to be their friend!
Kinda true. I have this female in my life that I didn't mind for a bit but she has brought her problems into my comfort zone and I don't understand what her problem is. I can't ... and I'm not desperate for a deeper understanding; the girl needs help and I can't help her
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@NoraOnora: Do you know the concept of "the rescue fantasy"? I think I understand how you feel, but sometimes we just cannot help someone and we have to let it go.
@CinnamonWorlds: you said it best! "Let it go" :> I have and I encountered her to take time to heal in private and on her own terms. I hope she comes out of it
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