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Should I go to dinner with him?

It started when my friend came into class exclaiming that my boyfriend was roasting me (making fun of me) in his last class. It was embarrassing to hear all the things he had to say about my faces, my handwriting, and so forth. It made me think about how much of an asshole he can be. He never asks how my day is, always focused on him, and everytime we fight he threatens to hurt himself because he "lives for me". Many times i find myself putting more effort than him. He buys me snacks and expects that to be his way of showing love. He invited me to go to dinner with him tonight but he knows im upset with him and his treatment. He says he will change but he has told me that before. I dont know what to do.
Booklyworlds26-30, F
I was in the same place as you are in a few years back, I ended up leaving my ex cause it was just getting too much. I believe that you will find someone better then that. keep your head up though . the one thing that I did back then was always keep quiet, my advice to you is always speak up and speak your mind and now your worth. know that noting is your fault and at times it is his fault and you do have some one to talk to if things go bad. but its also your choice just do whats right for you 馃挄
LostInTheDesert31-35, F
What a jerk, like seriously, he deserve a good kick to the nog. Snub him and let him stew over that. The more you give in, he will continue his immature behavior thinking you will slide pass it. You need to put a stop to that nonsense.
Cooper802Forever22-25, M
Nope, seems like you deserve better....you need a man who respects you, is not a drama queen during fights, and knows how to actually express his love through heart-felt type stuff...
greenmountaingal70-79, F
Tell him it's not OK to make fun of you--no matter what. Let him know you won't tolerate it or anything like it. If this sort of thing continues, dump him.
Swoop62M
Looks like you go to dinner and continue the relationship or you end it here. And as of now you are negative toward this lasting.
Bean1746-50, F
Don't go out to dinner with him but do dump him. Anyone who slanders you behind your back and ignores you isn't worth your time of day.
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caccoon36-40
Yeah... I don't know the whole story, but it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.

Are you happy in the relationship?

 
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