Should I tell my ex bf I'm pregnant with his child if I plan to terminate my pregnancy?

I just found out I was pregnant yesterday
There's nothing he can do to convince me otherwise I am terminating it I cannot have a baby now.

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LadyGrace ·

I'm not judging you as a person, but any way you put it, it's murder according to God's standards. I'm sorry to say this, but it's true. Killing is not the answer. You say it's not a baby yet, but it is still life inside you, growing from the moment of conception, wanting to be born. If you don't want it, I'm sure some other lady who would love nothing more than to conceive, but can't, would love to have it. This baby deserves a chance.

heatherpommelman · 31-35, F

Pregnancy is going to destroy my body. I'm not putting it through that unless the baby is going to be mine.

LadyGrace ·

@heatherpommelman: You took a shot. You knew the risks. That baby didn't have a choice in the matter. You did, and do. It is poor planning. Your body is made to accommodate a baby. The baby would be just fine. It's your body you don't want to go through the pregnancy. If you knew pregnancy would destroy your body, then why didn't you think of that before you gave life? You cannot just make a precious life, then kill it. That is selfish. There have been plenty of women in your shoes, who felt the same, yet gave birth, anyway, and wouldn't trade that little sweet girl or boy for anything in this world. There are ways to make it work, or else give the baby up for adoption.

LadyGrace ·

@heatherpommelman: The baby already IS yours.

heatherpommelman · 31-35, F

@GraceFromEP: Okay that's not my problem. I didn't ask for this to happen. The fetus inside me doesn't feel pain and doesn't have a fully developed nervous system. It couldn't have lived without me. I'm fine terminating it. If you're not go think about your bible or something.

LadyGrace ·

@heatherpommelman: Ultimately, yes, that is your choice.