Should I tell my ex bf I'm pregnant with his child if I plan to terminate my pregnancy?

I just found out I was pregnant yesterday
There's nothing he can do to convince me otherwise I am terminating it I cannot have a baby now.

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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

He is an ex. Why would you even consider telling something that personal?

heatherpommelman · 31-35, F

Because it is his kid technically

Pinkrainbowkisses · F

Personal? He kinda made the kid too you know..

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@heatherpommelman: but you already said you are going to terminate it. If he gas no say about what you do why add his voice. What do you want, him to pay for it ?

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@Pinkrainbowkisses: but she has determined he has no say in the matter.

heatherpommelman · 31-35, F

@GJOFJ3: I'm a physician my friend will do it for free. I'm just wondering if he should know.

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@heatherpommelman: you want him to feel guilt, or hope he is upset that you are aborting his baby? Then by all means tell him.