Would you stay with your partner if they cheated once? And claim to never do it again 🙄🤔

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Would you stay with your partner if they cheated once?

And claim to never do it again 🙄🤔

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Blue02berry · 26-30, M

Doesn't matter if they did it again or not, the fact they did it in the first place shows just how much they cared.

Lovingly1 · 31-35, F

True

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

I agree

Reject · 26-30, M

I don't know why I would stay with someone who not only feels like they can't talk to me about our problems, but they've showed how much they stopped caring about my feelings by cheating.

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

You spitting facts yo

SW-User

I used to think I would never forgive them. It happened. I stayed.

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SW-User

@crunchyvirgo: Well...I don't know what else to say.😕 I stayed but I guess it was a mistake. Cause after all he was the one who left me in the end...

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

What an ass. His loss

SW-User

@crunchyvirgo: Nah...we both made mistakes so I guess I can understand how he felt. Besides,he is actually a great guy. So it's ok now...🙂

IvanKaramazov

I'd like to think I'd respect myself enough to leave, but the truth is I doubt I do.

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

Exactly. I would stay with him until the end of time because I'm an idiot 🙄

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

@crunchyvirgo: I disagree. You're not an idiot. You're too smart to be an idiot. There must be something else at play here...

Loretta78 · 46-50, F

Depends on the relationship. If it was a good one before - maybe I give him a chance.
If it was a bad relationship before - good bye then!! 👋

SailorMarz · F

I guess. Maybe. & if i do i don't want them complaining about how insecure & uptight ill be with them...you did this to me. Lol

SW-User

I did stay.. but i was wrong for doing that.

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

:( ❤

Challenger1 · M

Probably not, unless there were extenuating circumstances. I require trust in a relationship, if that trust is broken then everything else falls apart. And the biggest area of trust is faithfulness, I demand absolute faithfulness, I offer the same.

Snickerdooodle · 31-35, F

Helllllllll no. Maybe after like 30 years of marraige cause what else would I do.

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crunchysavage · 26-30, F

@Snickerdo0dle: omfg who in their right mind would cheat on you?

caccoon · 36-40

@crunchyvirgo: Right? Look at that face.

caccoon · 36-40

@crunchyvirgo: As a matter of fact... look at yours. Gurl <3

EDIT: Not that I think a woman's worth is only her beauty! Y'all seem cool.

JaneDoe23 · F

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crunchysavage · 26-30, F

Yeah this is usually the analogy I think of

Dewms

I think I would. Omg

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Coppercoil · M

Lot of people stay. Lots of long term good relationships have a few skeletons in their past.

Shadowstep · 26-30, M

@Dewmsberry: IT MEANS COUPLE!!! *cries harder* WHY?!

Dewms

@Coppercoil: tru. There's always hope they'd never do it again 😨
@Shadowstep: not to me! It means cat 😍

Fernie · F

Nope...that "cheat" represents betrayal, selfishness, spinelessness, dishonesty...who wants to be with a person like that?

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

Yes. Everyone deserves a second chance

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

Well, you have the unpopular opinion

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@crunchyvirgo: I'm used to that.

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

@GJOFJ3: same. I'm always playing the devils advocate lol

Tminus6453 · M

Never do it again...😂.. yeah, right... no way,later honey

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

Lol

Wildflower00 · 51-55, F

My answer is no.. I walked away no regrets.

AllAboutLaffs · 80-89, M

Nope ... one strike and you're out ...

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

You is right

Coppercoil · M

So many factors go into play. Love, sex, the situation, how it happended, the likelihood of it happending again, Etc. Plus if I stay in get a free pass for a future affair of my own.

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

God damn. A free pass 😁

Coppercoil · M

@crunchyvirgo: it's the law.

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

Lol you young ones are so funny

bijouxbroussard · F

At one point I would've said "never"...but there are variables, I guess. The circumstances, how long we'd been together, whether or not I really trusted that he wouldn't do it again. And maybe after some serious counseling. That's not to say I wouldn't be really hurt, though. But I've known friends who have gotten past it.

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

I agree completely, but then again I agree with everything you say 🤣

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

@crunchyvirgo: Such an agreeable woman! Where have you been all my life? Oh---never mind--you weren't even born. LOL

Still, from my personal experience with women, I'd love to have one who always agreed with just half of everything I said.

*note to self: don't hold breath*

Shadowstep · 26-30, M

Well if you did it to me I'd give you one last chance if you gave me a few weeks just to get everything out of my system.. I've learnedthat it's easier to forget and abandon what is going on than to forgive those you love

cheesyAF · 31-35, M

NEVER!

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

Respect

SW-User

i dated a guy who said that. i stayed with him, stupidly. he ended up cheating on me 3 times before i could get myself out of that shit.

crunchysavage · 26-30, F

Ugh I'm so sorry. Some guys are such dicks

SW-User

@crunchyvirgo: it's okay i ended up breaking up with him and now he's a loser and i'm winning at life 😏

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

@crunchyvirgo: The problem with guys is that we have two heads, but frequently only enough blood supply to run one at a time. The larger the smaller head, the more likely that this will be true. :-)

As for myself, I have always ended relationships before they deteriorated to the point that I would have cheated. However, I can't say the same for all of the women who have been in my life.