I have bf - a good guy )) loyal, nonjudgmental, supportive...

but after 2 years of dating i realized he's not enough for me physically and mentally. Thoughts?

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ProudAlaskan · 61-69, M

Well breakups are sad. Especially for the other person. Yet one has to find happiness for themselves even if that means leaving someone you've cared and loved. You only live once. Why live your life with someone that doesn't inspire and motivate you!!!!

AmataBene · F

yes, for the last few months i felt being pulled down and kinda degrading... he has no ambitions or motivation to find a job or change anything about his life, so he's lived off of me mentally and emotionally; a couple of times i offered him small financial help to test him... help was gladly excepted... I am not mother Teresa :D :D i have two kids to take care off