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I have bf - a good guy )) loyal, nonjudgmental, supportive...

but after 2 years of dating i realized he's not enough for me physically and mentally. Thoughts?
Thanos · 31-35, M
Cause he's too nice for you
calmingeffect · 26-30, F
No one would ever be enough for you
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Not true
Alphie · 31-35, M
@jeephikelove: depends on how high you set the standard. It's a difference between someone who's right, and someone who's supposedly a flawless, perfect superhuman that doesn't exist.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
@Davis345: she never said "flawless" or "perfect" her relationship has clearly gone through its cycle and she's no longer attracted to him...that's completely fucking normal!
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SW-User
Let him go. He deserves better.
lequack · 26-30, F
Wow, lots of rude people here. For starters, it's normal to feel that way in relationships. Some people feel more in a few months than a lot of people do in their lifetime. Examine what is wrong in your relationship and talk to your partner about it. If it doesn't work out it just doesn't. You don't have to stay with someone just because of how long you have been together or how much money they have spent on you. If you can get what they offer to you out of any other relationship, you should probably move on. Doing the bare minimum gets boring.
SW-User
Tell him what you want and if he won't or can't give you that then make a decision if you can live with that or not
Sounds like you have a great friend but it sounds like you want and need more.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Sounds like you two have slipped into "just friends". 😐
Thatguysteve · 31-35, M
Tell him, make it quick like ripping off a band aid and walk away. 👍
SW-User
watch some porn together and say in a firm tone "I WANT THAT'
SW-User
YES you need someone..someone from some other planet
getmeouttahere · 36-40, F
Tell him what you need and if he's not down move on.
ProudAlaskan · 61-69, M
Well breakups are sad. Especially for the other person. Yet one has to find happiness for themselves even if that means leaving someone you've cared and loved. You only live once. Why live your life with someone that doesn't inspire and motivate you!!!!
AmataBene · F
yes, for the last few months i felt being pulled down and kinda degrading... he has no ambitions or motivation to find a job or change anything about his life, so he's lived off of me mentally and emotionally; a couple of times i offered him small financial help to test him... help was gladly excepted... I am not mother Teresa :D :D i have two kids to take care off
Alphie · 31-35, M
Worst part is trying to find advice from complete strangers who have no reference to what kind of relationship you two have, and what kind of personalities you two have. Non the less, communication is the key to any problem. Talk with him, not us.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
I have a wife who has never been enough for my physically but we have been together for 34 years. That is because we see eye to eye about most things. Although it has been tough on me. You need one or the other, ideally both
Let him go. Someone will appreciate him.
olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
say good bye as good friends..tell him the truth that he is not ideal for you both physically and mentally.
IFoundLife · 41-45, F
'Non judgemental' is key. There are not many out there.
Lolco · 36-40, M
Can i pm you if you don't mind?
AmataBene · F
sure
Lolco · 36-40, M
@AmataBene: thank you
AmataBene · F
thank you everyone!

 
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