Thanos ยท 31-35, M
Cause he's too nice for you

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Let him go. He deserves better.
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calmingeffect ยท 31-35, F
No one would ever be enough for you

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Not true
Alphie ยท 36-40, M
@jeephikelove: depends on how high you set the standard. It's a difference between someone who's right, and someone who's supposedly a flawless, perfect superhuman that doesn't exist.

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@Davis345: she never said "flawless" or "perfect" her relationship has clearly gone through its cycle and she's no longer attracted to him...that's completely fucking normal!

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Tell him what you want and if he won't or can't give you that then make a decision if you can live with that or not
PicturesOfABetterTomorrow ยท 41-45, M
Sounds like you have a great friend but it sounds like you want and need more.

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Sounds like you two have slipped into "just friends". ๐
getmeouttahere ยท 36-40, F
Tell him what you need and if he's not down move on.
ProudAlaskan ยท 61-69, M
Well breakups are sad. Especially for the other person. Yet one has to find happiness for themselves even if that means leaving someone you've cared and loved. You only live once. Why live your life with someone that doesn't inspire and motivate you!!!!
AmataBene ยท F
yes, for the last few months i felt being pulled down and kinda degrading... he has no ambitions or motivation to find a job or change anything about his life, so he's lived off of me mentally and emotionally; a couple of times i offered him small financial help to test him... help was gladly excepted... I am not mother Teresa :D :D i have two kids to take care off
lequack ยท 26-30, F
Wow, lots of rude people here. For starters, it's normal to feel that way in relationships. Some people feel more in a few months than a lot of people do in their lifetime. Examine what is wrong in your relationship and talk to your partner about it. If it doesn't work out it just doesn't. You don't have to stay with someone just because of how long you have been together or how much money they have spent on you. If you can get what they offer to you out of any other relationship, you should probably move on. Doing the bare minimum gets boring.
Alphie ยท 36-40, M
Worst part is trying to find advice from complete strangers who have no reference to what kind of relationship you two have, and what kind of personalities you two have. Non the less, communication is the key to any problem. Talk with him, not us.
MrAverage1965 ยท 61-69, M
I have a wife who has never been enough for my physically but we have been together for 34 years. That is because we see eye to eye about most things. Although it has been tough on me. You need one or the other, ideally both

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YES you need someone..someone from some other planet
bijouxbroussard ยท F
Let him go. Someone will appreciate him.
IFoundLife ยท 41-45, F
'Non judgemental' is key. There are not many out there.
Lolco ยท 41-45, M
Can i pm you if you don't mind?
olderguy2016 ยท 70-79, M
say good bye as good friends..tell him the truth that he is not ideal for you both physically and mentally.
Thatguysteve ยท 36-40, M
Tell him, make it quick like ripping off a band aid and walk away. ๐

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watch some porn together and say in a firm tone "I WANT THAT'
AmataBene ยท F
thank you everyone!












