Why do people always hurt the ones they love?

Woodycymru89 · 36-40, M

Cuz love hurts

Because love is greed.

Arthur14 · 26-30, M

It is the dilemma of hedgehog. You see, humans are like hedgehos in a cold night. To warm themselves, they try to snuggle into each other, but the closer they get to each other, the more they are injured by their thorns.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

They are the ones nearest them, it's easier.

sspec

It happens situationally and not willfully for sure when there is love. Expectations play their role in hurting all involved. Hence, taking each other for granted does not sound like an idea at all.

LadyWioness · 56-60, F

The question of the ages! I think both of the ladies that commented are right; CherokeePatti and BlueMetalChick.

Booyeah · 41-45, M

Because people are different with different dreams and goals, they rarely align and never permanently.

Gilgamesh · 31-35, M

Because hurtful things are easier to remember then then good things

Xena1234 · 51-55, F

If you truly love someone you do not intentionally hurt them.

Justgettinstarted

id like to hear the answer to that question too.

SW-User

Insecurity mostly

mrmoose · 70-79, M

sometimes it can;t be helped

SW-User

Because the others don't care?