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mic11225 · 26-30, M
Well at the end of the day you either deal with it, make them deal with you getting a pet anyways, or break up. Whichever seems the least damaging. I think not having a pet should have favor over having one though becsuse pets cost time and money for both parties
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
it can be heart-breaking when you get a pet and can't afford the medical treatment like a surgery when they need it...gotta think of those things as well as any lifestyle changes.
TwinklelilStar · F
I agree it is a compromise. For some people having pets around then is a necessicity to function well and that makes it particular difficult then if the other party does not want to compromise.